Am I ready to plunge in a wedding tie?

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CONFUSED...............is d wORD..thnk everyone asks to onself b4 gtn hooked
There are a lot of IF's & BUT's when i think of it.
Its a mixed feeling wether im happy or just to make world happy or Legalize my relationship with the guy im currently going around with. Dating and then getting married there is a huge long tunnel in between - Darkness all around.As a BF there are so many thngz whch one doesn’t mind wether its about Finances, enjoyment, fights but now I feel a difference – Difference not in terms of his love getting less for me, but me getting more serious about this entire stuff of marriage where now i need to shoulder a lot of responsibilities. Its easy to say dat love marriage doesn’t require much adjustments but as I said courtship period and period after marriage are to separate sides of the coin. There are a lot of thingz u discover bout a person in courtship which u tend to ignore but when u see the same guy as your would be u tend to try changing a persons habit not because that person is bad but for betterment. But then why is that ur called an encroacher in other persons life.

As it is rightly said a girl not only marries the guy , but the entire family, whole lot of new relatives where u need to continuously prove urself esp if it a love marriage…. that u were definitely the chosen one and the choice made is right.One has to definitely go a step forward to start a relationship with the guys family, and as its said its Give n take relationship. You give love and receive and vice versa.

Moving on to a WORK LIFE BALANCE…………….
Being single u dn need to shoulder responsibilities. Going late @ nite – u knw dinner wld already b prepared with ur favourite cuisines on the table, but after marriage u need to thnk bout getting bk hm early so that the helper of the house can be guided bout wats to be cooked for dinner – kpn in mind both of our tastes.
If u try to stike the balance between office n home u tend to displease ur bosses who wnt u to kp up late in office to finish a lot of last minute tasks that come up or if u leave late frm office definitely ur house seem to be neglected.
So being a SUPER WOMEN is the answer?
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature.
There a oodles of thingz which need to be done…….. settling is not easy either when hardly a month is left for the D DAY.
We need to identify a place where we have to stay – a decent apartment which suits our pocket and is as per our standards – a deadly combination to get in place like delhi, Home related stuff- basic minimal requirement to set house, although our parents are supporting us but then one has to get into nitty gritty of things when it comes to settling down.Here is when from being tkn life for granted u gt serious and start thnkn

Im sure a lot of ppl who wld have got married mst hv got into these inhibitions and tension n that makes me lil cool that im not the only one going thru dis.

At the end wld jst lyk to sake…….HOPE FOR THE BEST and GOD is thr for the rest.